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He was embraced as one of Britain's most beloved entertainers in a career that spanned decades up until his passing in August.

That is something I want as well, but his remaining active on dating web sites even supposedly looking for “friends” is very disconcerting to me, and I told him as much.

Finally, the real question here: How long should I “patiently” wait for him to stop pulling back from me? I know everyone’s different, but I just need some guidance here, since I would like to see where things go without all the constraints!

I probably wouldn’t be ready for matching grave plots after 3 months either, but I wouldn’t dodge the issue if it was brought up.

I would also be making and taking week night calls, even as cranky as I get by the end of the work day.

He’s just doing what’s right for himself, so it doesn’t even occur to him that he’s hurting you. He’s not telling you he loves you, he’s not calling you his girlfriend, he’s not seeing you during the week, so how can he be called a jerk? He gets to act like a boyfriend on the weekends, spend the week searching for other women, and still not have to step up to the plate and commit to you. Yeah, it’s hard to have a talk about “us” when there is no “us”. I’m not a believer in ultimatums, but I’m big on action. “I really, really care about you and have very much enjoyed our time together. And it’s become increasingly clear to me that it’s not going to be you. I’m not hurt or offended, but I need to find someone who wants a relationship. And you saved yourself another nine months of wasted time with a commitment-phobe. Warmest wishes, Your friend, Evan Jennifer; Evan wrote it before and I agree based on my own experience.

By saying nothing, he continues to cover his ass, and you continue to tolerate it. You can have another exclusivity talk then when you see his profile on Match, but what for? But as amazing as I think you are, I’m not really getting my needs met here. People who are truly interested act interested, in straight forward & obvious ways.

You’re expecting things to change, but he doesn’t want them to change. If I was set on someone as girlfriend material I would certainly disable my online personal ads.